Loving our Husbands

I am currently reading a book entitled One with a Shepherd by Mary Somerville. I wanted to share an excerpt that asks some practical questions in how we can measure our love for our husbands.

"Have you found that marriage magnifies your own selfishness and desire for going your own way? I have. We have to learn to love sacrificially like Christ...

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Love is patient, love is kind. Do I go out of my way to do kind things for my husband? Do I use the same kind, patient tone of voice with him as I do with others on the phone?

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Even when he gets all the praise and thanks, do I rejoice in his accomplishments, remembering that we are one?

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking. Am I excused to be irritable and touchy at certain times of the month? Do I complain and want things the way I want them, when I want them? Do I rejoice in opportunities to sacrifice so that he can pursue his calling?

It is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs. Do I hold grudges? Do I take offense and wear my feelings on my sleeve? Do I have pity parties?

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Do I hate evil in myself and work hard to kill sin? Do I pray for my husband's sanctification and rejoice to see God work in his life?

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Do I believe the best about my husband or grow suspicious? Do I trust that the God who allows riches or poverty, sickness or health, peace or persecution is the One who will cause all things to work together for our good as we become more than conquerors through Him who loved us?

Love never fails. Does my husband know that I will stand by his side anywhere through anything until death parts us, or our Savior returns?

With Christ-like love, marriage can be a foretaste of heaven on earth."

Look for ways to show true biblical love to your husband. I know I have many areas in need of improvement!

Tonya